Exchange of power is, in a nutshell, what domination is all about.  In an erotic context exchange of power can create a highly charged situation that is a delight to participate in.  To see the submissive so gone and in the palm of one’s hand is very empowering.  To play the game and dance the dance intrigues and mesmerises me. 

Head Teacher, aunt, Bitch Goddess, prison commandant, slave owner have all been part of my repertoire and I have played these roles..  However,  I do not act when playing these games.  Instead I tap into a part of my various alter egos,

Any of the techniques I mention on this site, bondage, sadism, transformation etc. are all useful tools that I use to put a person into sub zone.  However, I find my voice and, conversely, silence two of my best tools.  

 - FEMINISATION AND SISSIFICATION

Men should be more in touch with their feminine side and what better way than in an erotic context.  The sensuality of silky underwear, the tightness of a corset, the elegance of high heels all combine to help complete the feminine experience. I have a large and extensive selection of silky underwear, corsets, dresses, wigs, shoes and make up. 

For those of you who wish to return to that period when life was a little less complicated, I have a wide range of sissy clothes from Leg Avenue, nappies and school uniforms. I have been known to take my sissies out on shopping trips to Covent Garden and Soho in London which is very humiliating for them but great fun for me and my friends. 

 - HYPNOSIS

Hypnosis fits in very well with the power dynamic between dominant and submissive because the latter craves to be mesmerised by the dominant whose role it is to tap into the subconscious of the submissive, take them to a fantasy land of passive emptiness filled with erotic arousal. Hypnosis also taps into the subconscious and can be a useful tool in the context of domination..

I am a trained hypnotherapist having completed the certificate course from the London School of Clinical Hypnosis. I carry out my hypnosis sessions in a safe, consensual and ethical way.  For example, when awakening my clients from trance I ensure that the client is brought back to the present and into a fully conscious state.  I include some ego boosting suggestions to increase the subject’s feeling of wellbeing and optimism when they go into the outside world.

Being put into an hypnotic trance can be very relaxing and people report how pleasant it is.  In a bdsm setting it can be used in a variety of ways: to make the subject feel more feminine and sensual in female clothing; to help relax the sphincter for greater penetration with toys and to increase the power of orgasm.